My friend went back to her husband house and decide to not divorce with him. My mind is good to give each other a chance although she had given her husband alot of chance and he still not willing to change. It is difficult to change of a person charater. It takes times. I am thinking what is marriage,what marriage for????Alot of people married because of sake of married or other reason? Before you want to marry , must think carefully and after you married, you must try your best to maitain your marriage. If you are not prepare it, please don;t marry. This is my opinion. So far, i am still lucky that i have a happines marriage,how long it will last.......i looking forward to know.... 10 years ...20 years....... we see ya....